Why do many of us riders think we can have “the
whole enchilada” when we haven’t gone through the process of truly
learning how to do something?
I have a local client, Mr. Salsa, who thinks he
should be able to have the whole enchilada because he has seen his horse
do something with a more experienced rider. Do any of us expect a child to
drive a car well just because for years he has been sitting in a car
driven by his parents? I hope not! I think we all
agree an inexperienced driver needs to learn and get a “feel” for the car
while going slow and driving in light traffic before he/she takes on the
challenges of big city or freeway driving.
Mr. Salsa’s horse is in the middle stages of
learning the opening and closing of a gate but the rider still has to help
position him correctly or he can get off balance. When he gets off balance
he ends up moving some part of his body too much making it more difficult
to maneuver the gate. When I have tried to slow Mr. Salsa down and tell
him to move his horse a step or two at a time, he’s thinking, “I have seen
my horse open and close a gate before so he should do it.” He
doesn’t realize he is trying to go too fast too soon. As a rider, he needs
to learn to crawl before he walks not vise versa.
I know there are a lot of riders out there
whose thinking is similar to Mr. Salsa. I encourage riders to slow down
and take the time to “feel” the subtle steps it takes to get “the whole
enchilada”. If you do slow down you will achieve what you are after much
sooner with less confusion between you and your horse. You will sense when
your horse understands what you want and you will perceive when he is able
to perform what you are asking him to do.
The whole enchilada can be achieved one bite at
a time instead of stuffing it all into one moment. We seem to be
conditioned to live in a fast food society rather than enjoy the
experience of eating a meal consisting of numerous courses. Working with
your horse should be more like eating a 5-10 course meal where you savor
the flavor of each moment while opening and closing the gate. Eventually
you and your horse will be able to open and close the gate in what seems
to be a slow continuous flow of movement that will have a lot of eye
appeal and cause other riders to be envious of your skill.
Mr. Salsa is a work in progress (like the rest
of us) but he is becoming more aware of how important slowing down really
is to having “the whole enchilada”!
Jane can be contacted at
www.janezubia.com or 307-254-0666
